Monday, September 14, 2009

My First Week in Shanghai

It's Monday Morning and i'm early to work as usual. Taking Darren's advice on creating a good impression. I'm sorry that i've not been able to update my blog as i've been quite busy and the internet is REALLY lousy at times. Anw, i was totally overdressed on the first day of work. To my utter surprise, all of the staff were casually dressed with sneakers and T-shirts. Everyone was staring at me as if I was Paris Hilton from Singapore. I told myself that I would dress more casually from tomorrow on. I was wearing four-inch heels, with my hair neatly done up, in full office attire and make-up. Ok, i can imagine some people laughing, dun laugh cause Jean and Vanessa was overdressed at their offices too.

I decided that I will act like a local and live like they do. Thus, I decided to take the public transport on my own to the dismay of my aunt. Taking a cab to work is not expensive at all, it only cost about S$5 to get to work in a cab. For the distance that I travel, it is considered to be very cheap indeed. But taking the public transport would only cost S$2 a day, back and forth from work.

Shanghai’s subway is just like Singapore’s MRT, extremely packed during peak hours. However, I was shocked to see people having their breakfast on the train. We all know that this is prohibited in Singapore. Other than that, people were pushing violently through their way into the train, hitting you at times which I heard is a very normal phenomenon here as Shanghainese can be quite uncultured at times, but i must state that not all are like that. The people in my office are fantastic.

It felt like I was on an adventure, I got on the train as if it was a ride at the theme park and was secretly proud of myself for getting down on the right stop. When I told my mum, aunt and friends; they told me to forget it and just take a cab to work.

Shanghai’s train stations are roughly 3-4 times bigger than Singapore’s train station. They have 6-12 exits while Singapore mostly only has 2. They have many lines here as well and I’m excited to do some exploring here over the next 2.5months.

I got lost thrice already; I won’t go into detail on that as the main point is that I learnt many things. I believe it is only when you get lost one-two times, then will you remember. I realized that I had to always be alert; I had to remember many roads’ names, which are in Chinese and I had to constantly have the courage to ask for directions from the locals.

I'm enjoying work very much and i've familiarised with the roads and train stations already. I refuse to take a cab to work everyday or take the driver cause i really wanto learn how to get around myself just like the locals (to the dismay of my aunt who is a tai tai here). I know it's dangerous as i look 100% blur at times, but it's the reason why i'm here. Not just to see this beautiful city, but to learn to be more bold, to step out of my comfort zone, and explore the unknown. Everyday, it takes a step of faith to cross the crazy roads here where drivers, motorcyclist and even cyclist would rather run you over than stop for you.

Therefore, even crossing the road here requires skill. I had to remember many roads as well as Shanghai is so big. You have to be confident when talking to the cab driver or he'll bring you for a merry-go-round to earn some extra cash. I have to be constantly alert for pick-pockets in crowded areas etc..

After being in Shanghai, i understand why it is so important to be well traveled, not just as a tourist but living like a local. You become a 100 times more street smart and you'll be more confident wherever you go. Confidence is such an important attribute to carry with through your life. Just like my leader Aaron which i met on my first day here.

I met Aaron at Jin Qiao Carrefour (Secret Recipe) and the first thing i did was to give he a big hug. It is always nice to see Aaron and i bet everyone in Singapore misses him. But he's back already and now i'm here. We talked about alot of stuff but i can't write it here. haha.

Well, just to update you on my work, i'm currently helping with some world expo project for the World Expo 2010 in Shanghai. An Aston Martin Roadshow and the coming HSBC Golf Championship 2009. Very exciting!!

I really miss everyone back home, especially my family, E459, my church, Stephen etc...Too many to be named. You know who you are. I was talking to Huiyi on Skype just now. So happy to be able to see her (through the com lah).

Thats all that i currently have. Here are some random pics, i haven uploaded my pictures from my cam. Another time yeah. Sorry Guys.

At the office :)


Half my DeskAn Aston Martin Car. I'll be helping with this project. Can't wait to see the cars :)
Vanessa and I on our first outing
ME eating luch with Van

The End :). More soon :)


Monday, September 7, 2009

I'm Going to Shanghai!!!

Hey All,

As i will be Shanghai from the 8th Sept to the 21th Nov 2009. I will be updating my blog once again. i know it has been "the handshake that changed my life" since donkey years. However, no promises cause I'm not 100% sure that the internet is efficient enough and with the China firewall etc.. i will do my best to journalese my daily life there. Do watch out for my facebook updates as well(if i can update). I'm also contactable through MSN, just leave a msg if i am offline. Last but not least, you can skype me as well. My skype name is cleo.choo :)

Well, that is it. I love you all!! Till 21th Nov 09 :)

Love,
Cleo

Saturday, September 27, 2008

The Handshake that changed my life :)

The Handshake that changed my life...


Its been 4years since i knew you, 3 years since i loved you, 2 years since i knew i would marry you. A lifetime to live and love you...

That's the summary of Stephen and myself. We have no anniversaries, no official dates, no special day. We don't count the days and months because we know that keeping count for eternity would be impossible. We just moved with time, from strangers, to friends, to best friends and to soul mates..Without noticing, 4 years passed...
I was loud, proud and opinionated...
While he was quiet, gentle and just so sweet...

We were opposites in every way(even the picture shows). Only common in 2 area. 1)We didn't really care what people think or say about us (I didn't care and he didn't really bother), 2)We didn't want to get married. Yup, you heard in right. And here's the explanation...

I hated that men were the superior gender, while we girls were under-rated. Every men was a competition to me. Why do i need to SERVE my husband drinks and food. Doesn't he have hands and legs??? I made up my mind to work, earn money, adopt kids and lead a very single life. One word to describe me.."feminist"...

Stephen never really took interest in girls. Women seem to be a missing word in his dictionary. He was more interested in games and his guitar. Because of his family situation. He made a decision to not get married. He was afraid to ever needing to go through that pain again...

However, God was going to make us go back on our words. It was like He was playing a horrible cruel joke on us, and it seems like He was enjoying it...

Stephen and i became friends during the rock concert as we were placed in the same band. I was the vocalist and he was the guitarist. One fine day, Catherine wanted us to be open about our previous relationships. She wanted the band members to share about our past. I was shocked to find someone who was like me. Both of us voiced out our views on the opposite gender. We were not interested AT ALL!! Marriage was out of the question...

We shook hands in agreement..And then the weirdest thing happened..there was a spark and chemistry. A feeling i never felt before..Was it LOVE??

I was so confused and messed up inside. I prayed, ask God for some answers. Is falling in love a sin?? Questions started to pop up. How can i be spending time thinking of a guy. I was astounded by my behaviour. I even slapped myself to wake myself up(It's true). Cleo!! what are you turning into???

I knew that Stephen was feeling the same way. I just knew it. Though we were standing far apart, we were so attached to each other on the inside...

This is Stephen during Rock Concert(16 years old,2006)


Many nights, we would be so reluctant to say "good night", that we decided not to. We would just leave the phone on till the next day before we put on our uniforms to head for school. He would shout at me to wake up at 5.30am and would play the guitar for me every morning through the phone. He would sing "To be with you" almost everyday. Though he sang out of tune sometimes, i enjoyed every second of it.
This song has so much meaning to us. Whenever it comes to the chorus, it just makes my heart skip a beat..

I'm the one who wants to be with you,
deep inside i hope you feel it too.
Waited on the lines of greens and blues,
just to be the next to be with you...
Haha..it's not that i have alot of boyfriends before(i didn't even have one). Remember, i was the "feminist". I have never loved any guy before (other then my dad and 2bros)...It was just that i was always surrounded by guys, out of 3 of my best friends, 2 of them are male (you get the picture)...

Changing for the one you love
Ever since Stephen came into my life. Parts of me begin to change. He didn't mine the old me, but something inside me just wanted to change for him. Stephen has little ego and is selfless most of the time. He would gladly cook for me, take a glass of water for me, serve me like I'm his princess. But i felt terribly bad..what kind of girlfriend am i? I can't even do anything for him..

Thus, i made a decision to change. When you love someone, changing is inevitable. Like when you love God, you change naturally, without prompts....

To Stephen(Tree) :)
I know I'm not the best cook, best encourager, or the prettiest girl in town. But i will make an effort to change. From the inside out. I know you always say that you love me for whatever i am already. But i want to be better for you. I want to make you feel like the luckiest man in the world. I love you so much and nobody on earth or in the universe can ever replace you in my heart.

So Cleo!!Change!!
1) Be more encouraging and supportive. Be the best cheerleader!!
2) Stop being so proud..remember that after pride comes a fall..
3) Slim down!! target-50kg (5kg to go)
4) Improve your make-up skills (looking pretty is important)
5) Serve instead of being served
6) Start Now!!
(2008)

It's still a long and tiring road ahead..But knowing that i'm going to walk it down with you..i just can't wait to put on my shoes..
xxx
Cleo :)

Friday, September 26, 2008

Photo Shoot + Exams!!!

Hello Everyone!!

Well, i've got sneak peaks of my personal photo shots. Try not to laugh. Hehe :)

Trying to look ELEGANT..


Trying to look COOL..


And, Trying to look SWEET..
Haha..Hope you guys liked the picks..let me know how you feel and how i can improve. There's many many more, but i haven got it yet. Will upload once i have it..Cheers :)


WHAT HAPPENED TODAY??

Well, today was really cool. I woke up at 6am to wake Stephen up. He travelled to kembagang and we played basketball together in the morning. Why such an odd timing you may ask? It's the best timing by far to not be spotted and laughed at i guess.

Stephen tried his very best to teach me how to get the ball in the net,
but i guess im just a lousy shooter. Have not change since Primary School. Anyhow, i enjoyed myself throughly. I got to busk in the sun (which i love), eat breakfast with Stephen and have an early start of
the day..

YMCA was the next stop, we attended to hear Pastor preach at the
"Y Knot" gathering. He preached a good message on Excellence, and
i enjoyed it.

Then, Hadi, Stephen and Myself went to Plaza Sing to catch a Movie.
It's called "My Best Friends Girl".. The title's really catchy and i bet all
of ya would roughly know the storyline..

HADI
When on the train back with Hadi, He said that he felt like a lamp-post and a mosquito when he's with Stephen and me. So Hadi, if you are reading this (which you most likely will), i just wanto say that both Stephen and i treasure you very much as a friend. Your company is
most entertaining and valuable to us. We enjoy having you around, you're a great friend, brother-in-christ and example of God. It's OUR honour to have a friend like you, so dun ever ever ever feel bad.
Anyone would enjoy your amazing humour and wit. So cheer up my friend!! You are more than what you think you are. :)

E459
My dearest boys and girls. I'm soo worried about all of you guys!! Promise me that you guys will study hard. And if you are actually reading this post...IT MEANS THAT YOU ARE NOT STUDYING!!
Don't be lazy and get back to work. Bind every spirit of l
ethargic-ness, lazyness etc..No 15hours, no service for you guys..
i will be checking!!!
All the best!! Shine for God in your schools.Will be praying for you!! :)
Bedok Green Sec School (BGSS)
Clive,Noelle,Daryl,Chloe,Joshua,YongCai,HingChung,Dawn,Benson,
ZhanTang,Charlene,Vanneza,Waikin,Weijie,NicholasWong
MeiTing,XinPing,Bernard,JinXiang,Dionne,Joseph,Jason,Kendrick...


Bedok South Sec School(BDS)
Weling,Edna,Zhiling,Leonard,HanTing,Whalen,Bertram,Georgina..


Hai Sing Catholic
Sara Danielle Lee


Punggol Sec School
Brenda


Tanjong Katong Sec School
FengYuan


Bukit Panjang Gov High
Cassandra :)


and Nicholas Ng(O'levels), sorry but i forgot the name of your school..hehe..


I love you all!! Do well and do your Abba Father Proud...


REMINDER!!!
Faith + Actions = Results

Alrighties..Will be signing off here!!
Good night Lord :)

xxx
Cleo

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Mamma Mia

Hello Everyone!!
It's really been a long time sinced i blogged. Since it's such a long time, i've got lotsa things to say and lotsa pictures to post!!Yay!!
Ps: Qi, if you are reading this. It means you are not studying!!!!!

Well, i wanna be really organised, so here are the things that you are going to see.
1) Mama Mia!! What an awesome day :)
2) My Parent's 20th year anniversary photo taking (behind-the-scenes)
3) Girls-day-out Pictures!!
4) Honey Honey!!

MAMMA MIA!!
Here i go again...(Someone stop me)

The best movie of the year (To Cleo) is out in theaters now!! It's none other than "Mama Mia"!! What can i say, i'm such a slave to musicals and love songs. The best thing about the movie?? Can i say "Everything"? Haha..that's too overated..

Anyway. the best thing about the movie is definitely the plot and the SONGSSS!!! Omigosh, i'm soo in love with ABBA songs ever since i was a kid, i was practically singing to every song in the theater. I watch in twice already, yeaterday and today. I watched it with Mummy, Daddy,Stephen and myself today! It was kinda like a double date with my folks, cool yeah!! I love them soo much!! They are just the coolest parents any girl could wish for..

Haha, don't be fooled by their all-so-mediocre-family look. My Dad used to be a ROCKER, He's my one-man-band. He sings, plays the guitar, the piano, the harmonica, the drums etc... I know a thousand and one oldies all because of him, playing the guitar and singing me to sleep!!

Don't get me started on MY mum, cause She is my Dancing Queen, young and sweet, forever seventeen mummy!! She's cool, sexy, elegant and super beautiful!! Haha..i know..self praise is international disgrace.. but i just can't help it!!! The show totally reminded me of both of you!!Loves :)

To wrap it!! MAMMA MIA was just soo awesome!!Please do watch it. Highly recommended by your most-trusted-friend..ahem...ME :)

20 Awesome Years
My Parents 20th Anniversary Photoshoot!!
I've got soo many pics to show you guys, but i can't put it all as there are too much!!Took the cream of the crop though. This are the behind the scene photos taken by my beloved cousin Phoebe(Qi). I will show you guys the real ones once they are out..which is soon..Yay!!
Getting ready...
Ps: Our Make-up artiste was none other than my fabulous auntie (phoebe's mum). She's been in this trade for 20 years already, and she's still more beautiful than the many young girls in the trade. Oh no..here i go boasting again..hehe..
And the the Off-stage photo taking..Clive and I (Don't we look sweet?)

Me and My 2 Men!!

Family Shots!!


There were times where we got tired.......
But It was ALL FUN!!
I took quite a couple for my portfolio as well!! Here are some sneak peaks. Haha. There will be many many more coming up...



Girls-Day-Out!!
Godly Girls can have fun too right?? RIGHT!!
I brought my girls with me to Safra Resort.We went for a swim together. Followed by the Jaccuzi. Then we went to the Steam/Suana Room!! Lastly, we had a wonderful lunch at "Cafe By the Pool". We chit-chat, talked about our future husbands and about growing to be a women of God!! It was super-duper fun to hang with them.
So girls, remember!! Don't ever ever let anyone define or value you according to their judgement. We are more than what people perceive us to be. We are priceless, beautiful, and unique to God!!Amen!!

Here are some pics :)






E459 Girls are beautiful, smart, confident, sharp and Godly! Amen!!



Honey Honey
How he thrills me
Aha Honey Honey.
Honey Honey
nearly kills me
Aha Honey Honey.
I heard about him before
I wanted to hear somemore
And now i know what they mean
He's a love machine
Oh he makes me dizzy!!!
This is my current favourite song!! Also from ABBA...
Alrighties..Thats all folks..will update more the next time..lotsa love..God Bless :)
xxx
Cleo

Friday, August 22, 2008

God's Love is Amazing!!

It has been 4 days sinced i blogged. Have been really busy as my exams are next week. Do keep me in prayer if you are reading this. I will be sleeping less than 4 hours a day from today onwards. That is what happen when you study last minute. But i have faith, and i believe even at the eleventh hour, God will move the mountains with me.

Anyway, just want to share about CG yesterday. Aaron and Claire was not able to make it and i had the priviledge to preach during CG. I only had 10mins to prepare a message on God's love. Though i did not have a message at hand, i just plucked out the verses that i felt really shows God's love.

My points were;
1) God's love takes away fear
2) God's love protects
3) God's love is sacrificing

There are times that i feel like giving up and just throwing in the towel. But God's love is always so embracing and loving. He has never given up on me though i am so horrible at times. Cleo, you are going to make it!

I am so blessed because i have God by my side, an awesome family, E459, Stephen and great friends. There is nothing more that i can i ask.

Thank you for reading. More next time. Love ya all!!

xxx
Cleo :)

Monday, August 18, 2008

Drumfest Finales 2008. Winning Drummer + Band

Hi everyone, this is the video that i promised you all. I know most of my darling cell group members and friends are reading my blog. Thank you for all your support.

This is the video of the Drumfest Finales. Just for all of your info, Stephen is playing on the Electric Guitar, Naz is on the Bass and Chow Kiat is on the Drums. Do comment or rate on youtube itself. Love you all!!:)

xxx
Cleo

Here is the group performance...



This is the Solo that sealed the deal to victory. Enjoy :D